Some young people find it possible to utilise less harmful techniques to provide the function sought from self-injury. The following are examples that may be considered with a young person, particularly during the care planning process.
Alternatives to self-injury
- physical activity eg: running, punching bag
- relaxation eg: controlled breathing
- stamping on empty cans, throwing rocks into water
- carrying a safe object eg: teddy bear, rock, item of clothing
- squeeze ice cubes between fingers until they go numb
- yell, scream, sing loudly
- write about or draw the thoughts, feelings
- eat a chilli, or something really hot
- snap wrist with a rubber band
- visualisation of self-injury or alternatively a ‘safe’ space
- apply Vapour Rub or Deep Heat under nose
- talk to someone
Many of these ideas are consistent with the DBT approach to distress tolerance.
Distracting Techniques | Comforting Techniques |
cleaning | hold a safe object |
playing games - cards / board games / computer | sit in a safe place |
sports / exercise - walking / running / dance | listen to soothing music |
gardening / plants | sing a favourite song |
visiting or ringing a friend | use perfume / hand cream |
paint or draw pictures / posters / cards | pick fresh flowers |
write letters | eat a favourite food |
puzzles | have a soothing drink |
watch TV / video | have a bubble bath |
listen to music | soak your feet |
cinema | change the sheets on your bed |
hobbies - sewing, knitting, collecting | stroke your pet |
Positive Emotional Techniques | wear comfortable clothes |
read old letters | hug someone / your teddy |
look through old photos | put lights on (to sleep) |
listen to emotional music | prayer |
watch funny / heart warming films | Mindfulness Techniques |
read joke book | guided visualisation |
say positive statements to self | focus solely on breathing / breath deeply |
read your list of assets or strengths | count your breaths |
Emotional Focusing | focus on the position of your body |
list emotional triggers | relax each muscle individually |
write poetry / prose regarding feelings | listen to relaxation music |
paint / draw emotions | meditation |
write a diary | yoga |
discuss feeling with another person |